New Year's Resolutions

OK, there's the obvious...eat better, move more.  This year I want to exercise the body and mind.  I want to read more and write more.  The more I read the better I write.  The more I write, the better I get at communicating.  My cousin got me into blogging before "blog" was a word.  It was a way to stay connected with each other.  I made online "friends" through other online "friends".  Some I still read about, even though we never met IRL (in real life).  Then there are IRL friends that I've added .  I rarely ever write, but I still read my f-list everyday.  Somewhere along the way I stopped writing in it because I didn't want to talk about myself.  I didn't want anyone to judge me and my problems.  I didn't want people to know that my (1st) marriage wasn't perfect.  I didn't want to tell the public things about my relationship that I couldn't even tell my husband.  If I said it out loud, then it would be real.  Now that THAT's over, and life has moved on, I think I can feel comfortable talking about me.  I talk about me to the people who have been my IRL friends, and they still like me and support me, so why shouldn't everyone else?  I also got it in my head that I was a crappy writer and not as smart as my highly educated LJ readers.  Last year, my goal was to stop worrying about being judged all the time.  Where did I get it in my head that I'm not smart, or that I suck at writing?  And if someone does think that, then who the hell cares?  Right?  

I decided to create a separate blog from my original livejournal, so it could be "all inclusive."  Meaning, my LJ, Myspace, and Facebook friends can all take a look.  Right now, I don't care who reads my blog.  I hope that one day, I don't start to feel self conscious again, and start to filter what I write.  

Here's a question for all the bloggers:

Is there anyone that you DON'T want reading your blog?  You don't have to give specific names.  For example, "I have a frenemy that can't keep her mouth shut about my business."  Or "I don't want my co-workers to see what I write."  Or "I don't want a certain person to read it because I talk about what a bitch she is all the time."