The internet is for stalking...

I have been googling a few friends who I've been curious about, and they don't seem to have facebook or myspace, so I haven't come up with much.  Recently though, I found video about one of them, and it turns out he is a chef at a very nice restaurant in my hometown.  Good for him.  Now, where's his sister?  I also found another friend's pictures on his neice and sister-in-law's myspace pages.  Now I really feel like a stalker.  I would be even more of a stalker if I left them a message, "tell your crazy uncle I said hi and to get a freaking facebook!"  It's hard to stalk people when they don't use facebook.